Sticky black energy-how do I shift it!!!?

[stellavision]

Hello there

This is my first post and hopefully not my last!
I read CP when I was at school and I am now 28! I still use the information to guide me. I now understand energy....
I feel really pushed into this western way of life. cornered almost and I am struggling to accept that this is how we must all live.

I have a situation. I was just starting to see auras on trees-and give reiki energy. I was really feeling comfortable in my skin -energy was light and colourful around me and find the beauty (does that make sense) and now lots has changed. People died on the negative and I made some mistakes regarding my health but now I live with a better man in a nicer place out of the city. Things have changed-Mainly for the better in the practicle sense but I am not feeling very free. I am getting older and trying to accept that we all grow up.....We are all burdened by responsibility so I am not complaining. But HOW DO I GET THE BEAUTY BACK? Has anyone got any excersises?
I was feeling light and fresh but now I feel a dark heavy energy I really can't shift! I wasa in a bad relationship and now I am out of it and things in my new home with my new man are sweet. But I feel like I am stuck
in sticky black energy-like treacle!!!

[littlebird]

Hi stellavision,

I can relate to what you are talking about. When we come out of a sticky situation physically, it takes longer for the spiritual filthy residue to disappear. It lingers. Wish I knew how to get rid of this too and fast! Time and distance from the memory does help though. Sounds to me that you are moving in the right direction.

Peace to you.
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[truth]

Hi there, hope this finds you well.

I now know that all experiences, both good and bad are ones from which we learn. In fact, I was always prone to not being able to shift the bad experiences. Although this did bring about a negative mindset in me in the past, I now know that those memories remained at the forefront, until I'd learnt the lesson they were trying to teach me.

I believe that, although the 'dark energy' that remains after a bad experience gives us a sense of being flat, it's actually our minds at work, trying to put pieces of the puzzle together. I call this mulling and it's happened so much recently, I now recognise it as something pretty amazing. I never make decisions when in mulling mode, in fact it's a great time to catch up on old brain-deadening chores... I wait, knowing that at the end of it all, I'll be given an answer to an old problem.

So, I guess my response is to just let it happen, knowing that it's a good thing and see what happens.

In the short-term, this vision might help: everything that has happened to us since the dawn of time has brought us to where we stand today, all inextricably linked to each other (pretty amazing, ey!). We have a blank canvas to our fore. We know that the next step we take into the future will create that future, we owe it to ourselves to take it with high self-esteem, confidence, truth and with the best intention for all. Enjoy that step; enjoy the adventure.

[littlebird]

Dear Truth,

I quess I've been in "mulling mode" off and on for quite sometime now too. Today I asked God to please send me an angel with some advice. Went to a park for lunch thinking perhaps to run into someone there. No such luck! Came back and saw your message. Thank you. You remind me that all things work together for our good. And ecspecially to take the next step knowing our true worth.

Blessings to you.
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[truth]

Dear Littlebird,

Your message was truly energising, thank you. I love that we have our inextricable link, but don't forget: it was your faith in yourself that enabled you to accept the advice.

Keep your faith, be true and let your beauty shine through,

Truth

[Theressa]

Hi All,

Interesting thread!

I think the sticky black energy stays until we are ready to admit the role and behaviours we acted out that helped to cause the problem we have left behind. Then we can draw a line under the past and move on with new insight of how to behave differently now.

I asked myself this question today: Why did I always lose myself in romantic relationships? my answer because I began focusing on the other and trying to subtley change them. I never saw what was. I saw what would be if I ever managed to change the other. I never did get to change the other infact I end up frustrated and left them.

The fact is Who is infront of us, is who is in front of us exactly. Do we value the universe's creation. Sometimes other times we try to change it - in other words change another.

A peugeot won't ever be a mercedes. An apple never an orange. But, yet we try so hard to do the impossible. Change another. When if we changed us everything around us would change

When we've definitely finished and changed then the energy disperses. Call on archangel Michael he helps us to dissolve old cords to people who no longer serve us.

Anyone we think of creates a cord energetically.

My thoughts.

Love, light and blessings
Theressa

[Jennypoo]

Hey everone out there in goodness and love! You all have such great energy and you all are so lucky to be so enlightened and gifted! I feel better just being a part of this forum! I really believe we start out in love and then the fear of loss or being alone moves right in to destroy our love!
I know we teach other people how to treat us by the way we speak about ourselves (and treat ourselves) as we are struggling to become one with God's perfect light, love, life and vision in Christ of his perfect plan for us! I would say to anyone who has emerged from a bad relationship learn from it and move into your own worth!
Look at this good partner & really see that you are worthy of this good (energy/love ) and say daily (Thank-You God for bringing me out of a dark period of my life) and giving me this perfect chance to not only learn to accept that (I am good enough and deserving of a good relationship but a great future and you know what I am going too take it!
I am going to tell me that I love me and trust me and will no longer harshly judge me! B/C I am your child-- heavenly father and you do not make mistakes --we just learn together-- this is how someday; we will become one united (perfected) love eternal and you can count me in!
Then enjoy the goodness (I know Christ died for you to have & to eternally belong in)-- ( the pure light, love & life that God himself has breathed into you--- of his goodness (and for his great joy!)

Go right ahead and live the best life & know you truly deserve it! That's how (I killed)-- my negative energies and still do to this very day!
Believe and receive it creates miracles everyday in my life and it will in yours too! (Love and hugs to you-- B/C you are worthy! (Just like me!) God bless & keep your good energy flowing into all the earth !! you are creating more good so let go & enjoy every moment and Just love your new life and partner as yourself! love & prayers always-- Jen
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[truth]

Hey Guys,

Wow! There is some amazing energy out there - thank you for sharing. I thought I'd share some thoughts with you regarding our past ties.

I believe that we choose the situations in life in which we find ourselves, in order to learn from the experience. Of course, we don't know that at the time, and sometimes we feel as though we'd rather be anywhere else than where we find ourselves, but if we want to learn, the lesson's there for us to learn.

This belief ties in with the 'inextricable link'. I would not be the person I am today without all of my experiences. I like the person I am today and I am truly grateful for all of the people who have helped me become who I am. I believe that there are no ties to break, in fact I am stronger with them intact; because with those ties intact, I know that I'm a part of a very great whole.

[Theressa]

Hi truth,

Your post got me thinking.

Can we really ever cut the cord if we are all connected? I think maybe its really about drawing a line under interacting with certain people. No longer directly investing energy. That does not mean we all don't affect each other indirectly.

What do you think?

Love,light and blessings
Theressa

[littlebird]

Lots to consider here. It amazes me how your insights have helped me! I've been a member of a bible forum for awhile. The dynamics have changed there and I no longer feel uplifted in that group. Old members have left and new have joined that claim to be of light but justtttttttttttt don't come off that way. Been thinkin about leaving for good but am hesitant to cut the cord so to say. Then I remember "what fellowship does light have with darkness"? I would like my spirit to grow in light, love and truth - not stay in the gray area! Maybe it's time to move on...

Blessings to all.
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[truth]

Hi Guys,

When to stay and go is a tricky one. In an ideal world, the only way we can truly decide to move on is when the intention of the group or other is not in line with our own. Of course, we don't live in an ideal world, hence the decision being tricky. It's tricky because both parties have to be aware of their true intention and that isn't always clear.

If my intention isn't clear, I try to be as honest as possible with myself to be able to analyse effectively why I feel the way I do. If I feel as though I'm running away due to a personal fear, I try to persuade myself to hang around a little longer, because I know that a fear confronted is one that can be removed. If however, I feel as though I'm looking for something that is missing from the group, then I free myself to give myself the opportunity to find what I'm looking for.

The good news is that: even if we move on without learning the lesson that particular part of our lives was meant to teach us, a similar experience will come along some time in the future to give us another chance... don't you just love it!

When we want with intentions both selfless and true, the power of love dissipates all fears.

[Theressa]

Hi littlebird and Truth,

"Should I stay or should I go" This has been a common thread in my life for the last 6 months. One needs to ask oneself if what they are receiving and giving is enough.

For example, I left my original reiki circle after 5 years because I just wasn't getting what I needed to grow. I was in need of new rolemodels. I was having conflict with my reiki teacher. She seemed to be stopping me from moving forward. I decided to go to another reiki teacher and the stuff she shared was just what I needed to hear. I've also stopped contact with some old friends. They kept making arrangements but not keeping the commitments. I realised we just aren't the same people anymore and we have very different values.

I feel that when problems start cropping up then something in the dynamics is telling you something. In my current job there have been lots of issues I have been able to face. Others high expectations, my low self esteem, limit setting etc.

Whenever a new member joins a group the dynamics change. In community development they describe it as: Forming, storming and norming and this process happens each time a new member joins or one leaves.

In the storming stage it is a time for contemplating and questionning. Sometime others input can help us question our beliefs and values. This is good.

Sometimes we can come to the conclusion that we just don't feel comfortable with what others are saying. For example, the muslim man that was telling me recently that men are all predators and Gay people are bad. I just did not feel this was true for me.

I like the idea that Truth said about nothing being lost since we can learn our lesson some other way.

I think this has been one of my fears that maybe if I leave my job I may be making a mistake but then their are no mistakes.

Nothing leaves our life if we still need it.

My mum left her bag in a taxi/cab the other night. I asked Archangel Chamuel to return the things she needs for her highest good. Today the bag was returned less the money but she said "at least I got my phone numbers and key rings back that are precious to me."

Love, light and blessings
Theressa

[truth]

Hi Theressa,

I agree, there are no mistakes, but I always try to work towards something as opposed to running away from something. If undecided, I do nothing.

The great thing about doing nothing is: not only do you not have the hassle of changing your routine, but it also provides time for working out what you truly want. Sometimes change for change sake is yet just another of life's distractions.

Life's too short for distractions.

[michellepetkus]

Hi Littlebird,

Forums seem to go through phases as with anything in life. This forum was fairly busy and then got really quiet for a while and now it is getting a bit busy again. Your bible forum may be just going through a phase that will pass. All forums will also have a few judgmental people on them. That is just life. Those people think in their heart they are commenting for everyone's benefit but rather than let them upset me I just refrain from joining in any conversations that I get that uncomfortable feeling about since I know if they are being judgmental I may very well fall into judgment myself and I choose not to. So I guess what I am saying is you don't have to leave your forum but you don't have to participate with areas of discussion that make you uncomfortable either. Who knows maybe some of the loving people you enjoyed talking to may come back at some point.

Love,
Michelle

[littlebird]

Dearest Theressa, Truth and Michelle,

Gosh, its seems we all are so similar in our journies. There IS strength in numbers. You all share alot of wisdom with me that has not gone wasted. My heart actually feels the energy just typing this message to you. Well, I've decided to move on.....w/o cutting the cord, the door is still open for me, but I choose to direct my efforts in more positive atmospheres. May you find the path to your quests also.

With much gratitude to you.
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