A VISION.

[aLx]

hello to both of you

it is really amazing how the insights and visions to help us learn comes in the right time.

by just reading your posts here, i learn a lot.

theresa, i really believe that an open and honest communication will destroy all barriers especially if it is done with love deep inside. puoring others with love will also help them pen to us easily, as if to return the favor of puoring us love.

fear and love is indeed the two basic emotions. all of our actions are guided by either love or fear.

good day
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[Theressa]

Hi Eyeman,

No I haven't seen the film. I am unsure about the region codes so I haven't bought the DVD yet. Do you understand them?

I think you are right that the celestine prophecy wasn't meant to be in your life before. It sounds like you were meant to deal with the last thirteen years with the resources you had available. You got through it anyway so that's what matters Lol!!

I am learning it is all just experience and working on the feelings that are brought up for me.

A big issue of mine is wanting make everything nice and peaceful. But, I realise sometimes it is best to do nothing and leave well alone. At times I want to say things to make others feel better, to send them a message, a poem, to reassure them. BUT, I am learning sometimes the nicest thing to do is to do nothing. To let them just experience without my influence.

At the moment this is a key lesson for me. I am learning the art of energy conservation. No directly inputting anything into anything.

My ex keeps texting but I know he is like a drug for me. I need to totally detach. I know that I behave in ways that are not healthy with him. I know that I am only attracted to him because of my urge to make things better. I know only he can really make things better in his life. It appears he has never been alone. He has always had a new relationship straight after another. I realise he has issues surrounding women and hurts that he needs to work out or not work out but that I need to be away from that influence and that atmosphere since it feeds my own patterns.

I have to be wary of my patterns and now I recognise them. I know each day it gets easier to realise I can only sort my own life. I need to leave others to sort theirs.

I used to feel the need to take responsibility for others. For example, in a team project I'd do more. Why? firstly I felt important and secondly I feared what might happen if I didn't. Maybe it might all end and fall apart. But, maybe its meant to?

At the moment there are major financial difficulties at the organisation I work. A big part of me wants to say to the manager don't feel sad you did your best. BUT, maybe she needs to feel sad and thus, I am best saying nothing.

I am having faith and knowing I have the resources to cope with whatever happens next. I just keep on keeping on.

The point is the future maybe amazing. It will be what we all need. Who knows what opportunities may arise?

I am learning there is the spiritual aspect of reasoning and yes its okay to feel disappointed to. But, this to shall pass.

Partnerships are morethan one person. Teams have morethan I. I am sure you have learnt an awful lot about your roles and patterns and behaviours and what you do in relationship with your wife/pattern/spiritual pattern?

Speak to you soon. It is good to have people to share our thoughts with I think it helps because it helps us question and thus, grow.

Love and light
Theressa

[EYEMAN]

Ive ckecked on the blockbuster site for dvd rentals, and it is going to released over here on the 28 of may so it wont be long now.

remember back in the celestine prophecy book about creating the super person, we need to find our selves before we can, can find the ideal person to create this super person.
But i suppose both people would have to have so big before this can happen.
All in good time, one of my motos is is all good things come to those who wait, and more often than not it works out right.
If you have patients then you will be led to the right one.

just remember we all think when we meet people, and we like them that we need them, (or become addicted to them). This is only true if that is how we think, it seems like you have learned that already.

Im also glad that you alx, are learning like we are its good that we have just met eachother and we are teaching each other so much, whether its what we already know and just need to hear, or reading how we seem to affect each other with what we right down.

catch you later.
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[EYEMAN]

try not to feel that you need to take responsability for others, just try as you are doing and try and give advicewere needed, and be also be quiet when needed.

And i hope your company sorts its difficulties out, and if you feel your boss needs a shoulder then try and be there.your judgement is crucial.

see you later.
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[EYEMAN]

To theressa,
Sorry about writing that lot of rubbish before when i read what you had written before again i realized how wrong i was and again im sorry for giving advice when it wasnt needed.
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[Theressa]

Hi Eyeman,

It wasn't rubbish it was a good reminder!

Yesterday I decided to change my sim card on my mobile phone so that my ex can't contact me. I realise that actions do speak louder than words. I then text him to tell him I do not hate him but I also do not feel it is okay for him to constantly keep contacting me as I need to move on and focus on the future. If he continued to disrespect my wishes I would ring the police.

I know that myself and him are no longer good for one anothers growth. I know that he was in my life to help me see the results of my over giving and over responsibility but now I see this I realise we needed to part.

He wanted to be friends but I feel that since he was still sending me love texts this would have just been giving him false hopes. He is not in a very good mental space at the moment but that is not for me to sort out! Apparently he has given up his driving lessons and is telling his sister how he has nout left and that he is ugly and that he exaggerated all about the women fancing him. I sent him love in my meditation. I am very aware this is not for me to fix so I am giving it to God and trusting he knows what is best and that I need to work on my own future.

People keep saying how can you just walk away after 4 years and not look back. They obviously don't know how hard it has been for me to keep on walking. But, my intuition has led me and I have trusted that my awareness is correct and my feelings. I have asked for divine guidance all along.

I can see how addicted I was to this relationship. I can see also how important it has been for my growth.

I am really looking forward to the Celestine DVD coming out. I have just ordered the book "The Secret" I kept on being alerted to it and I decided to purchase it.

Thank you all of you for sharing experiences and helping me to become more aware.

Speak to you all soon.

Love and light
Theressa


~my ego is asleep don't tell her that I've given others' issues to God because she might realise how unimportant it is for her to guide the world and how she can't anyway. Lol~

[EYEMAN]

Well i hope your ok, me and my girlfriend have had our fair share of ups and downs, (splitting up and getting back together).
Its never easy for either of us, sometimes its easier to just stay with eachother just to feel comfortable, but believe me its not about comfort.
(Im not saying im happy neither).

I thought you would have read the secret of shambala already, i hope you enjoy it, and be sure you let me know what you think. when i read it i was well pleased with it, it didnt let me down one bit.

At the minute im reading the celestine vision, its a bit different and its not a story but its full of good pointers, and things to look out for.

Well i hope to hear from you all again, and dont forget if we believe we can, we can change the world. Even just a little bit.

catch you later peoples.

Hey alx have read all the books yet?.
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[aLx]

hello there,

its been a little long since im gone here, and i realize you two have discussed a lot already. im really hopeful and will help to pray that you we find the peace within your heart theresa. i believe you did what you think is right. you annot control others, but you can surely control yourself. so just try to change the things you have control of to avoid frustrations.

hello eyeman, i havent yet read all the book. just the original CP prophecy and the tenth insight. i can say that these books open up a lot in my life. am also reading other good books. just try to see a thread here related to all the books we read.

i am planning also to buy the secret of shambala, just soon.

im really looking forward on chatting on you guys again...

i missed some other guys whove been here also, it seems theyre hardly visiting anymore...
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If God is our target destination, we cant miss. God is so big. He's everything, we have nowhere else to go.

[EYEMAN]

Hi alx,

ive also noticed that there are not many people writing down there opinions as well, and i check at the bottom of the screen to check to see how many people are using at the same time, and theres always somebody here but the amount of members keep going up and down.

do you think people still feel a little awkward or perhaps they might be a little bored with whats being said.

ive read the secret of shambala and its a good book, i would like to read all the time, but its not always possible because of preoccupation(work and family life ect ect). but im thinking of going to college pretty soon to perhaps study psycology. It is something ive always liked.

Aup Theressa
like alx i will be thinking (preying for you) and asking for everything to work out well for you to.
I am handing my notice in at one of my jobs today, and im not looking forward to it. but i know that once its done its done then i can move on.
the people i work with are nice but thats not why im there after all so its time.

do you know anything about tai-chi and do you think i would need classes or could i learn myself properly?.
Im interested in that because of the secret of shambala, but thats all i will say.

hope to here from you all soon, take care.
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[Theressa]

Hi Eyeman, Hi Alx,

I have read the secret of shambhala last year and I am in the process of reading it at the moment. I am up to the latter part of the book. But, The Secret is another book entirely. Its about the law of attraction. Lots of posters here have told me about it many times.

The eleventh insight is amazing. The most promient part for me is when it says you projection on to others faces people from your past. This is what I did many times with my recent ex partner. However, alot of his behaviours also were the same as those I grew up with in my home as a child.

As for people not posting at the moment. On this thread it is obvious that the three of us are working on some similar ideas. We are all attracted to what we want to learn about it could just be others have already learn about this topic.

I love reading and I love debating and questionning this and discussing things for me that is how we expand our views by hearing what others think. I'm sure you two already figured this out about me lol!!!

I cut my finger yesterday and its my ring finger on my left hand which relates to hurts in relationships. I've been sending reiki to the cut and assoicated hurts.

Tai Chi. I think one would go to some sessions first however, It is possible to learn anything. Maybe you can get a dvd!

I know what you mean about family taking up time but they are our biggest teachers so infact maybe we don't always need to read LOL!! I read on the bus on the way to work.

Thank you to you both for your prayers they are much appreciated.

Love and light
Theressa

[EYEMAN]

Hello there,
i really thought the secret was the secret of shambala, i feel embarressed that ive only just realised.
tell me who wrote it and i will read it definateley. then i can begin to understand what the law of attraction is all about.

Ive just watched a film called crouching tiger hidden dragon for the third time, and ive realised that even though its silly in parts, its also very uplifting in the story.

I fully believe that healing with the hands is very real, is that to do with reiki?
do you like bruce lee? i think hes a ninja and its a shame he died. the man had so much to learn and to pass on.

I hope the cut didnt go to far on your ring finger, but its strange that it happened isnt it.

im enjoying our conversations on the computer its good stuff.
i handed my notice in at work today and i wasnt expecting it but they offered me a pay rise and said in two months i could take on the contract for the cleaning.
it shocked me and im very confused as to what to do, the other company i work for dont want to lose me either, its really god to wanted, but im very confused as to what to.

anyway im going on a bit so i will go now and hope to hear from you soon
and i still cant believe i thought the secret was the secret of shambala.

see yooos later.
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[michellepetkus]

Hi Eyeman,

The law of attraction simply put is about manifesting our dreams by asking for what we want and letting it happen by letting go of our expectations. The secret of Shambala is based on a mythical place inhabited by people who have evolved enough that they can transcend physical reality. In my opinion is it more a state of mind of people who have reached a level of letting go of enough judgment that they have achieved peace with themselves and the world no matter what happens. I say this because I think once people have reached the level of transcending physical reality there really is no need for them to be here anymore. But I could be wrong.

Your work situation is a bit of a dilema. The best advice I can offer you is to listen to your emotional alarm. Which jobs gives you the most sense of peace when you think of it. Or which job makes you feel the most uncomfortable. If they both feel equally the same then ask that the answer come to you in a dream. Your dreams are basically a review of the past day. Have you had any recent dreams that stand out? In any event, try to see if your dreams can help you decide. If you have any that stick out that you just can't quite figure out send me a private post and I'll help you interpret it if you'd like.

Sincerely,
Michelle

[Theressa]

Hi Eyeman,

The Secret is by Rhonda Byrne (Hardcover - 4 Dec 2006) it is on amazon.co.uk.

Love and light Theressa

[Theressa]

Hi Eyeman,

I have heard of bruce lee.

The job. Sit down quietly and concentrate on your breathing and ask your inner mind the question about what to do about the job. You will always get an answer.

What is amazing is you said God wanted, instead of good wanted. That is a revealing mistype?

Whatever, you do a positive impact sounds like your goal so ask yourself do I feel comfortable at a certain place. This maybe because its familiar and it may mean that it is a place where you will learn great insights in to your behaviours and beliefs and your conditioning.

The finger is not deeply cut so I am taking that as a sign that the universe is showing me that the hurt won't last for long. The relationship isn't meant to either.

I do not feel you are going on too long. Who in your past or present life triggers this feeling in you? It sounds like you need to heal this with them. Firstly one suggestion is to visualise you and this person in a two circles and a figure 8 of light going through each circle. Then cut the middle of the figure 8 and put in on a fire. Also, take a magnet and say this magnet is attracted only to my energy and put it infront of your heart chakra and draw the energy back into you. Do the same visualising the other person with a magnet. This way you give back the energy that is not yours and take back your own.

Someone in your life criticises you for talking? The talking is about giving too much away? Sometimes we need to remember a smile is enough. However, on this website it is good to talk and share all your thoughts so use this place to do so.

Who do you try to convince? Your talking is about trying to convince another you are lovable? No need to convince! There will never be another you in this world and was so you are unique and whatever, situation or place you are in you are perfect for to trigger the right stuff to heal and for others to see and heal.

But, their healing is not your job!!!!

Speak to you soon
Theressa

[Theressa]

Hi Michelle, Hi Eyeman,

I totally agree with Michelle's advice.

Eyeman, hopefully you have enough suggestions to help you now.

Love and light
Theressa