Young daughter and her community needing support; House sale

Vivien · Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 92 Location: USA

Dear EagleSoul,

Thank you for your helpful, healing words. A lot of loving light flows through them.

Yes, it is too easy for me to fall into anxiety about what we are going to do next, and after the summer, esp. when I feel we/I am not doing enough of the right things now. My daughter did start working with a counselor who helps her tap into her feelings, challenge her thinking, and is teaching her some meditation, sometimes using EMDR as a tool to break out of old patterns. I think it has been very helpful.

Being in adolescence, my daughter is not at all interested in meditation with me or cooperating with me for many things at all. This includes schoolwork, chores, etc... If you have meditations to help shift that, I would be grateful. And yes, tuning in better myself has got to be the first step.

Thankfully, our dear neighbor is doing some lessons (a la Waldorf home school) with her, but so far, only an hour at a time. I would love to see more big-hearted folks who are willing and able come join the team. Also, having someone who needs a semi-quiet place to work or study would be so very welcome to just be present for periods of time. A little more structure would surely help.

In the midst of all this. we STILL need to sell the house, which is rarely in show-able mode.

One step at a time, trying to tune into our True Presences and extended Family of Light more and more.

Thank you,

Vivien

eaglesoul · Posted: Wed Mar 16, 2011 7:51 pm Post subject:

I was guided to send u this

http://www.healingwiththemasters.com/dynamic/?page=audio

it is simply great company to listen to her...she is amazing and from

experience I know how real THIS IS
Namaste

ceinvests · Posted: Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:51 pm Post subject:

I came today to re-read my prayer for Japan from Tuesday night prayer group.

I was led to your prayer by my love and respect for EagleSoul.

I was moved to send you my support. As another woman/mother (of grown sons) who knows that the most important and hardest work done on earth is parenting, I wanted to send my light of love to you.

As a daughter who has spent the last few years working on my feelings of lack of love from my Mom and most of the significant women in our legacy, I have uncovered so much work for we women. Oh, no, not more work!

Love your daughter at all costs. Love her. Let your eyes see her. Let your eyes light up in her presence. Let her make you laugh. Let her make you smile. Let her love you. And let her see that you see her love you.

Do not use her as your confidant. Do not let her carry any of your burdens.

Come to us, as you have. Come to us for energy, and support, and to carry your load, and to receive.

May your house remain your home for the right time as needed.
May you know that it is always show-able as the Universe makes it so.
Do not worry any energy on small details that judgments create.

Namaste'
Grins N Glimmers of Light~~
Ce

PS Thank you Jade for this music.
PPS Thanks EagleSoul for this link. I just started tapping.
PPS I pray that my words do not seem judgmental or hard. I reread with worry, but still feel to send my words. My start to heal and help us realize that we might not let our daughters love us, know us enough. It surely may not be your truth with your daughter, but I still have to share.
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Vivien · Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 92 Location: USA

Dear EagleSoul,

Thank you for the link. I really appreciate Sonia Choquette. This had a lot of new stories and tips in it. I hope that someday my children look back with some kind of fondness at my opening up the conscious connection to our many invisible helpers. They are not getting certain other practical skills from me as I don't have some of those to give!

My favorite oracle deck for meditation and guidance right now is the Ask Your Guides deck. That seems like a neat online radio program in general.

I appreciate the sharing and caring. Thanks again!

Blessings,

Vivien

Vivien · Joined: 24 Jan 2008 Posts: 92 Location: USA

Dear Ce,

Thank you very much for the pep-talk. First things first! It was not in any way harsh or judgmental. Yes, all of us parents need to embrace those words of loving our children in the way you describe. I ask the Great Spirit to help me live into that more and more.

I am working at turning the energy I am putting out re: the house to that of being attractive to the right person(s) just the way it is, with all of its blessings far out-shadowing its many imperfections. I pray for a win-win-win-win situation for all concerned, in-spite of the general down-period in real estate.

Thank you for your help and caring. May you also receive whatever you need.
Be well,

Vivien

eaglesoul · Posted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:26 pm Post subject:

Ah ! girls it is so good to have you around...Ce tks for ur kind words, I am joyful you enjoy the links...such beautiful words to Vivien my sister...I am glad glad you posted,yes lets come here to share our burdens !
Mothering IS the greatest job ever...and feeling isolated is such a dark alley , but a complete ilussion as you can see...mothering a daughter someone said to me once is to impact many...and yes I believe so, yes Vivien my girls at 28 and 26 are getting all the Light energy I once planted on their souls are now being seen in the world...it has been a long and winding road, but worth every ounce of Mom energy...
Yes we are the ones allowed by Heavenly laws to plant seeds on those souls...may our hand be guided by the Light Beings !
Namaste