i need some advice

[TimFellow]

There was someone in my life who I told meant a lot to me. She in turn called me young and nieve. In so many words I said that I loved her. She told me not to say things like that and that she was in love with someone else and was leaving in a week back to where she came from. I decided to take a leap of faith and gave her a necklace that I bought for her a few months ago, so maybe she'd see that she meant a lot to me. I went to her house and left it by her door. The next day she told me to get out of her life and if I called her or tried to contact her in anyway she would put a restraining order against me. She also said my gift to her was creepy. Did I do anything wrong? I don't know where that came from so I decided to apologize for anything I did that made her uncomfortable and that I wished to part in friendship. I lost her as a friend and I'm sort of heartbroken over the whole thing. Any advice anyone could give me I'd greatly appreciate.

[littlebird]

Let her be, Tim. You are not hearing her. You can not force yourself on people and you can't always figure them out either! It might not be you with the problem....

Take care,
littlebird
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[TimFellow]

thanks Littlebird, I really appreciate your advice. Maybe if I just let her go everything will be ok. it still hurts a little though

[littlebird]

Oh you're welcome Tim. Ending relationships can be hurtful, but you never know what will turn the corner next! Hope is always alive.
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