Human Addiction

[sarandipitty]

Hi Everyone, I am knew on this sight and was wondering if anyone could help me. I am having really strong feelings or energy with this guy. I feel he is really completing my circle right now. Yet my mind knows he is not completing my circle and that these are my feelings that I am projecting onto him. How do I learn to own these feeling and end my cycle of human addiction. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

[Wayne J]

By realizing the reality that no one is really outside of you. That your inner condition is creating/allowing the right people, the right situation, the right form in fact this very world for your immediate awakening. Hence the outer condition is really a reflection of an inner condition.



Question what blocks are there within you that's preventing you from that realization.



Remove the blocks to that celestial energy and in form your answer will be given you should a little willingness be present.



Ultimately all blocks to the awarenesss of celestial energy are ego mis-creations. Including the manifestation of another person to complete oneself, when in fact in truth we are One Mind United.



Undo the ego mis-creations and....the question then is...What happens next?

[Theressa]

Hi All,



Are you self rejecting? Do you self criticise? Do you see the good actions you do? Anger is about blame or seeing things as right or wrong rather than just different interpretations.



When we are addicted to anything it is our psyches way to fulfil our instinct for peace of mind. We are distracting ourself from our inner hurt. Begin to see your actions and the reaction they result in.



Spend 10 minutes alone just sat looking up at the sky and things around you or listening to a meditation tape. Increase your time apart slowly. Talk to yourself and say I am okay. I can cope.



Also every morning when you first wake up before getting out of bed take some deep breaths and then say 10 times "I love and approve of myself".



Be gentle with yourself. I to am learning about the behaviours and ways I show desperation for others attention. Such as over talking. Slowly I am learning to conserve my energy. Iyanla Vanzants book One day my soul just opened up, is an excellent book that teaches about conserving your resources, Time, money, talents etc because we are conditioned to save nothing for ourselves but we need to keep some resources just to benefit ourselves.



You are seeing this person in your life, but he is only a reflection of you. Also, see how he treats you. Is he rejecting in anyway? This is showing you how you self reject and don't treat yourself well.



Is the pattern - you chase and he distances? If so don't chase. As I said above learn to sit with the discomfort and fear of being alone some of the time. Read inspiring books. Start writing a journal where you write to yourself as if you were writing to a best friend and advising her. This helps you to become objective.



Namaste (I honour your soul)



Blessings

Theressa

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